Hebrews 12
7 Ref It is for chastening that ye endure; God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is there whom `his' father chasteneth not?
8 Ref But if ye are without chastening, whereof all have been made partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
9 Ref Furthermore, we had the fathers of our flesh to chasten us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?