Ecclesiastes 7
2 Ref It is better to go to the house of weeping, than to go to the house of feasting; because that is the end of every man, and the living will take it to their hearts.
3 Ref Sorrow is better than joy; when the face is sad the mind gets better.
4 Ref The hearts of the wise are in the house of weeping; but the hearts of the foolish are in the house of joy.