Hebrews 12
5 Ref And you have not kept in mind the word which says to you as to sons, My son, do not make little of the Lord's punishment, and do not give up hope when you are judged by him;
6 Ref For the Lord sends punishment on his loved ones; everyone whom he takes as his son has experience of his rod.
7 Ref It is for your training that you undergo these things; God is acting to you as a father does to his sons; for what son does not have punishment from his father?
8 Ref But if you have not that punishment of which we all have our part, then you are not true sons, but children of shame.