Hebrews 12
7 Ref If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
8 Ref But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
9 Ref Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?