Cross reference
1 Corinthians 4:21
21 What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
2 Corinthians 13:2
2 I have said beforehand, and I do say beforehand, as when I was present the second time, so now, being absent, I write to those who have sinned before now, and to all the rest, that, if I come again, I will not spare;
1 Thessalonians 2:7
7 But we were gentle among of you, as when a nurse cherishes her own children.
2 Corinthians 13:10
10 For this cause I write these things while absent, that I may not deal sharply when present, according to the authority which the Lord gave me for building up, and not for tearing down.
2 Corinthians 12:20-21
20 For I am afraid that by any means, when I come, I might find you not the way I want to, and that I might be found by you as you don't desire; that by any means there would be strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, whisperings, proud thoughts, riots;
21 that again when I come my God would humble me before you, and I would mourn for many of those who have sinned before now, and not repented of the uncleanness and sexual immorality and lustfulness which they committed.
2 Corinthians 1:23
23 But I call God for a witness to my soul, that I didn't come to Corinth to spare you.
2 Corinthians 10:1-2
1 Now I Paul, myself, entreat you by the humility and gentleness of Christ; I who in your presence am lowly among you, but being absent am of good courage toward you.
2 Yes, I beg you that I may not, when present, show courage with the confidence with which I intend to be bold against some, who consider us to be walking according to the flesh.
2 Corinthians 2:3
3 And I wrote this very thing to you, so that, when I came, I wouldn't have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy would be shared by all of you.
2 Corinthians 2:1
1 But I determined this for myself, that I would not come to you again in sorrow.
James 3:17
17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
2 Corinthians 10:8
8 For though I should boast somewhat abundantly concerning our authority, (which the Lord gave for building you up, and not for casting you down) I will not be disappointed,
2 Corinthians 10:6
6 and being in readiness to avenge all disobedience, when your obedience will be made full.
2 Corinthians 3:10
10 For most assuredly that which has been made glorious has not been made glorious in this respect, by reason of the glory that surpasses.
1 Corinthians 5:5
5 are to deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.