Hebrews 12
7 Ref It is for discipline that you endure. God deals with you as with children, for what son is there whom his father doesn't discipline?
8 Ref But if you are without discipline, of which all have been made partakers, then are you illegitimate, and not children.
9 Ref Furthermore, we had the fathers of our flesh to chasten us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of spirits, and live?
10 Ref For they indeed, for a few days, punished us as seemed good to them; but he for our profit, that we may be partakers of his holiness.
11 Ref All chastening seems for the present to be not joyous but grievous; yet afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been exercised thereby.