Matthew 10
34 Ref "Don't think that I came to send peace on the earth. I didn't come to send peace, but a sword.
35 Ref For I came to set a man at odds against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
36 Ref A man's foes will be those of his own household.
37 Ref He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me.
38 Ref He who doesn't take his cross and follow after me, isn't worthy of me.
39 Ref He who finds his life will lose it; and he who loses his life for my sake will find it.