Cross reference
Numbers 32:6
6 Moses said to the children of Gad, and to the children of Reuben, Shall your brothers go to the war, and shall you sit here?
2 Samuel 11:11
11 Uriah said to David, The ark, and Israel, and Judah, abide in booths; and my lord Joab, and the servants of my lord, are encamped in the open field; shall I then go into my house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? as you live, and as your soul lives, I will not do this thing.
1 Corinthians 13:5
5 doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;
Philippians 2:4
4 each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.