Cross reference
1 Corinthians 4:21
21 What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
2 Corinthians 13:2
2 I have said beforehand, and I do say beforehand, as when I was present the second time, so now, being absent, to them that have sinned heretofore, and to all the rest, that, if I come again, I will not spare;
1 Thessalonians 2:7
7 But we were gentle in the midst of you, as when a nurse cherisheth her own children:
2 Corinthians 13:10
10 For this cause I write these things while absent, that I may not when present deal sharply, according to the authority which the Lord gave me for building up, and not for casting down.
2 Corinthians 12:20-21
20 For I fear, lest by any means, when I come, I should find you not such as I would, and should myself be found of you such as ye would not; lest by any means `there should be' strife, jealousy, wraths, factions, backbitings, whisperings, swellings, tumults;
21 lest again when I come my God should humble me before you, and I should mourn for many of them that have sinned heretofore, and repented not of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they committed.
2 Corinthians 1:23
23 But I call God for a witness upon my soul, that to spare you I forbare to come unto Corinth.
2 Corinthians 10:1-2
1 Now I Paul myself entreat you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, I who in your presence am lowly among you, but being absent am of good courage toward you:
2 yea, I beseech you, that I may not when present show courage with the confidence wherewith I count to be bold against some, who count of us as if we walked according to the flesh.
2 Corinthians 2:3
3 And I wrote this very thing, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is `the joy' of you all.
2 Corinthians 2:1
1 But I determined this for myself, that I would not come again to you with sorrow.
James 3:17
17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without variance, without hypocrisy.
2 Corinthians 10:8
8 For though I should glory somewhat abundantly concerning our authority (which the Lord gave for building you up, and not for casting you down), I shall not be put to shame:
2 Corinthians 10:6
6 and being in readiness to avenge all disobedience, when your obedience shall be made full.
2 Corinthians 3:10
10 For verily that which hath been made glorious hath not been made glorious in this respect, by reason of the glory that surpasseth.
1 Corinthians 5:5
5 to deliver such a one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.