Cross reference
1 Timothy 3:12
12 Let deacons be husbands of one wife, ruling `their' children and their own houses well.
1 Timothy 3:2
2 The bishop therefore must be without reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, orderly, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
Philippians 1:1
1 Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, to all the saints in Christ Jesus that are at Philippi, with the bishops and deacons:
1 Timothy 3:4-5
4 one that ruleth well his own house, having `his' children in subjection with all gravity;
5 (but if a man knoweth not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
1 Timothy 3:8
8 Deacons in like manner `must be' grave, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre;